Worrier or Warrior? By- Rhonda Pepper

Many things are passed down from grandmothers, to mothers, to daughters.  Many of these things are great and make us who we are.  Unfortunately some are not so great.  I have inherited the “anxiety” gene from generations of womanly worriers.  If there was an Olympic medal for worrying, I would have several.

Although I trust God, my ugly humanness makes me “what if?” entirely too often. Sometimes it is something very serious, but others it’s just petty. But it is always a sin.  What if I get in a traffic jam and I am late picking up my third grader?  What if my college student make more Bs than As?  What if I get a stain on my new white pants? What If? What If? What If?

What if, instead of wasting time worrying, that I use that time during Lent to build my faith and strengthen my relationship with God through prayer and t0 become a Godly warrior instead of a womanly worrier?

What if I remember that God is always with me even while I am experiencing anxiety?  Be strong and bold; have no fear or dread of them, because it is the Lord your God who goes with you; he will not fail you or forsake you.” Deuteronomy 31:6

What if I remember what God has already done for me, Rhonda Jo Huffman Pepper? Praise the Lord, O my soul. And forget none of His acts of kindness. Psalm 103:2

What if I am both prayerful and thankful in EVERYTHING that I do?  Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God? ⁷ And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:6-7

Lent just might be the best season to turn my gaze and thoughts from all fears to the sweet face of Jesus and let Him handle my concerns.  My time worrying will not change a thing; but my God sure can. And I can rest in His peace.

Join me this season in laying down your worries at His precious feet. It’s not gonna be easy, but it is what He demands.   My goals are to remember your Word for me and talk to You whenever fears start creeping.  I want the warrior in me to overcome the worrier.

Prayer:  Dear Lord, thank You for forgiving me for worrying.  I want to lay my anxieties at Your feet.  Please help me to leave them there and know that You can handle them far better than I am able.  I don’t want my worrying habit be a stumbling block to my faith or to others.  Amen

Not Yet -by Joy Brown

When they heard that the Lord was concerned about them and had seen their misery, they bowed down and worshiped                                                                      Exodus 4:31, NIV  

When things don’t always go our way, it’s tempting to gripe at God, blame Him and want to rely on our own strength.

Almost everyone we know is walking through or has walked through a storm. If you are walking through a storm right now, do you feel God’s nearness?

Or does it feel like He has forgotten about you?

Have you wondered if God is with you?

Or do you believe He treasures you even though He’s not giving you what you want right now?

Guess what…He does has not forgotten about you! He is with you! He treasures you!

It is hard to wait, walk and worship in the storms. However, this is the perfect time to remember that God does listen to our prayers. If we trust and obey Him while in the storm, we will see how He leverages our hardships to actually work in our favor. We can rejoice over the way God will make all things beautiful in their proper time.

God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us (Ephesians 3:20, MSG).

Trust in the Name of the Lord. It is impossible for Him to fail you! Worship Him through your storms. Worship God because He is always good, even when we can’t see what He is up to.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, help me to learn that You make me wait because You are making me ready. Thank you for taking Your time with me. You know what is best for me. Help me trust you and when it is all said and done, I know I will be glad I trusted You. Help me realize that I trust You now. My soul waits for You, Lord.

In Jesus’ Name, I pray.

Amen.

Never Too Late - by Mary Ashbaker

When I look back at my youth, I remember my mother taking my sisters, my brother and me to church every Sunday.  My father who was definitely the head of the house remained at home.  He ruled the house with a firm hand and no one disputed his word.  He did not believe in sparing the rod and spoiling the child.  My mother who most people considered kind but weak, never stopped praying for Dad to find the Lord.

And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee, for my power is made perfect in weakness.    2 Corinthians 12:9

My grandmother who lived next to us really did not like my mother – so her lack of love for her spilled over to us – her grandchildren.  Grandma went to church every Sunday but her love did not spill over to our family.

As the years passed, Dad became ill with cancer.  Mom prayed even harder for Dad to find the Lord.

Rejoice evermore.  Pray without ceasing.  In everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.   1 Thessalonians 5:17

Her preacher came every week for two years and visited him.  They talked about sports, the world and upon leaving he would pray with him.  On one of the many visits home to Illinois, I felt it was time for me to talk to Dad.  I knew that I would not be at peace with him passing unless I spoke to him about the Lord’s love and grace.  As we sat on the porch talking, Mom stayed in the house – I’m sure praying.

Dad talked about Grandma professing to love the Lord but not living the life.  He talked about Jonah and the whale and confessed that was pretty hard to believe.  I reminded him that he lived with someone who did talk the talk and walked the walk with the Lord daily.  Then we talked about faith and inviting the Lord to come live in our hearts.  I left feeling that our talk did not make any difference in his life.

Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as the mustard seed you can say to this mountain, “Move from here to there, and it will move.”  Matthew 17:21

A few weeks before he passed, the preacher was visiting Dad in the hospital.  Dad never talked about their visit or what he said.  Later when I talked to Mom she said that Dad had asked the preacher to baptize him.

Through all of the suffering with cancer - my mother considered my Dad’s death peaceful for in his last days he came to know the Lord.  So after his death, we could see how my mother’s faith, love, strength, and prayers worked for all those who love Him.

Lord, give each of us strength to be the light for someone who does not know you as their Lord and Savior.  Help us to remember that all things work for the good of those who love Him.  Amen

Lift Up One Another - by Ben Mullen

Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another even as also ye do.

                                                                                       -1 Thessalonians 5:11

That there should be no schism in the body; but that the members should have the same care one for another.  And whether one member suffers, all the members suffer with it, or one member be honored, all the members rejoice with it.

                                                                                        -1 Corinthians 12:25-26

I remember driving in to work one clear, cool autumn morning thinking what a beautiful day it was and how peaceful everything looked.  Then, my cell phone rang, and my mother told me that a plane crashed into the World Trade Center.  Of course, we all remember what happened after that moment.  I thought the country and maybe the world would devolve into chaos.  And, yet what I saw was such an astounding unification of people, people from all walks of life, all around the globe, coming together and supporting and caring and loving one another through this horrific event.  I saw this again following the December 26, 2004, tsunami and then again on the Mississippi Gulf Coast following Hurricane Katrina.  It gave me, and continues to give me, great faith in humanity and more so in the fact that God’s word and Christ’s direction are in so many of us.  But, it does not take a monumental disaster for us to lift one another up.  Each of us endeavors to work through “mini-disasters” and challenges every day.  We should be attuned to the needs of one another and always be available to help, even if helping is simply listening or offering a prayer with our neighbor.  Learn to be trusted friends and remember that we are all integral parts of one body in Christ such that each supports the other in times of need and cheers and rejoices in the blessings each receives. The smallest of kindnesses often count in the largest of ways.  While one person’s crisis may not be a newsworthy event, the difference we make by following the Word of Christ by being one together is truly monumental.

Lenten Fasting - by George Duffee-Braun

Traditionally Lent is a period during which we give up something – usually something pleasurable or habit forming such as candy, chocolate, certain television shows, coffee, or smoking.  Many consider Lent as a 40 day period which can continue if the fasting or sacrifice is successful.

For some, the 40 days is a period of fasting to purify one’s system and draw closer to God.  Doing so is a reminder of the 40 days Jesus spent in the desert and his temptation by Satan.

Or perhaps it is simply a time of meditation and prayer leading up to Jesus' crucifixion and resurrection.

If nothing else, it is a period of time that most people recognize as a time to at least pause the daily routine, a time to reassess priorities.  This year, that pause comes at a most opportune time.

The nation and communities are deeply divided over the nature of government and the future course of our society.  Heartfelt opinions are leading to extreme irreconcilable differences, resulting in a risk of friendships and relationships being torn apart.  Leaders across the country are responding to and reinforcing their constituents’ opinions by in turn becoming not willing to dialogue with anyone with opposite opinion.

The fasting this Lenten period could be the pause that cleanses our spirits.  Instead of giving up a favorite treat, perhaps the fasting should be a spiritual one – giving up miscommunication.  Remember the words from a similar difficult period some 50 years ago – “people talking without speaking, hearing without listening.”  Suppose we simply resolved to fast from not listening?  Suppose we resolved to open our hearts to the Spirit to enter and lead us?

As I write this on Valentine’s Day, I am blessed by family love and devotion.  I am also reminded of that greatest love of all, the eternal undeserved love of God.  Can we use Lent to reflect that love in our actions towards others – the neighbors Jesus told us to love.  Can we show that love unconditionally to those whose opinions are different from ours?  After all, isn’t it easy to love your family and friends and those who love us? 

During Lent, it is time to do something difficult and love those different from ourselves  in opinion, culture, religion, politics or country of origin.  Giving up our personal opinions and distrust could result in greater purification of our spirit and lead us closer to God than any other Lenten sacrifice.

Luke 6:32 – “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you?”

Joy in Lent - by Rev. Elijah Mitchell

Jesus said, “I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance."

    Luke 15:7

Lent is a somber and solemn time because we are remembering the death of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.  But Lent is also a time to rejoice because of what Jesus’ death means to me and you.  Like the angels, we should rejoice each time a person recognize they need to be forgiven by God and then they go to God for their forgiveness.

Anytime a person repents, the power of the cross is working because people lives are being transformed in a positive way, because of what Jesus did for us on the hill called Calvary. So, when we repent of our sins, our faith is strengthened because Jesus released us from the burden of sin. And every time we repent, confess our sins, and renew our commitment to follow Jesus Christ, the devil’s power is broken.

Finally, Lent is also a special time for meditation, prayer and penitential practices. It’s a time to increase our understanding of Christ’s sacrifice and resurrection. Lent is a time for us to rejoice, renew our baptismal vows and recommit to the Christian life.

Prayer: Lord Jesus, every time we repent give us joy to worship and praise Your holy name. Amen.

It's Not All About Me - by Sally Boswell

“My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts, said the lord. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.”   Isaiah 55:8

If I have learned anything from my first year of halfway being in the real world at college, I have learned how easy it is to focus on myself. Everyone is constantly worrying about being successful and making a difference, myself included. Actually just before I sat down to write this, I took a nap and had a dream that I wasn’t involved enough around campus to be successful!

I have also learned that, debatably, being seen as a Christian (going to church, posting scripture on Facebook, etc.) often fits into the narrative society draws of a well-rounded, successful individual. I do not think this is bad; it definitely encourages more people to be in spaces that glorify God. However, the reason we go to church and identify as Christians is to seek a relationship with God, not to make other people think we have our life together.

We are not called to worry about if other people think we are impressive, and we are not even called to worry about what our lives will look like in ten years. As Luke 10:27 says, we are called to love the LORD our God with all our heart, all our soul, all our strength, and all our mind and to Love our neighbors as ourselves. Furthermore, we are called to stop worrying!

God is capable of far more than we can wrap our minds around, so why worry? Seek a relationship with Him because you love Him, not because you live in constant fear of how you are perceived. Once you know Him, it will be so much easier to worry less, to focus less on yourself, and to give more of yourself to others. The love of Jesus Christ lives in each and every one of us; living out that love is the only place our focus should be.